Summary
In Episode 14, Kaela and I talk about her path through her twenties, the obstacles she overcame, and how her mindset shifted to strengthening her belief in herself.
Improving your belief system is not a process that happens over night. However, if you continue to seek out different opportunities and be open to any results that may follow, then you’ll set yourself up to succeed.
Key Takeaways:
- Everyone struggles in their twenties; it’s part of the territory
- Learn how you can raise your beliefs in yourself by 1%
- If you can envision a future for you, then it’s possible for you to achieve
- Let yourself dream big, but be careful who you share it with
- Know your worth so you can accept all that you desire
How do I know if a job is bad enough that I should just walk away?
If leadership is telling you outright they don’t care about you as a person, or the environment feels toxic and unsustainable, that’s a real red flag worth taking seriously — not something you need to “push through” out of guilt. Kaela left a job after just one month once it became clear the culture was harmful.
How do I build self-confidence when I don't believe I can succeed yet?
Think of belief in yourself as a scale, not a yes-or-no switch — ask where you currently land, and focus on getting just 1% more confident rather than expecting total certainty overnight. Small, consistent gains in belief compound over time.
What's a good way to get unstuck when I don't believe good things are possible for my future?
Try journaling as your future self — imagine yourself a year (or even a day) ahead, having already grown that confidence, and let that version of you share advice with your current self. It’s a way to access wisdom you already have but haven’t tapped into yet.
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